ADVICE March 6, 2025
When you're buying a home, one of the first financial commitments you'll make is the earnest money deposit (EMD)—but what exactly is it? Let’s break it down and explain how it protects both buyers and sellers in a real estate transaction.
Earnest money is a good faith deposit that shows the seller you're serious about purchasing their property. It’s typically 1% to 3% of the home's purchase price, though this can vary based on local market conditions. The deposit is submitted when your offer is accepted and held by an escrow which is a neutral third party.
Earnest money reassures the seller that you’re committed to the transaction. It serves as financial skin in the game, showing the seller you’re not just making offers on multiple homes without serious intent. In return, the seller takes the home off the market while you complete inspections, secure financing, and go through the escrow process.
One of the biggest concerns buyers have is, "Can I lose my earnest money?" The answer is no—as long as you follow the contract and don’t waive your contingencies.
Contingencies are conditions that must be met for the deal to move forward. If any of these conditions aren’t met, you can back out of the contract and get your earnest money refunded. Common contingencies include:
You’ll only risk losing your deposit if you remove your contingencies and then back out of the deal for a reason not covered in the contract. For example, if you decide you just don’t want the house anymore after waiving all contingencies, the seller may be entitled to keep your earnest money.
Your earnest money isn’t an extra fee—it gets applied toward your closing costs or down payment. Here’s how it works:
✔️ If you’re paying closing costs: Your earnest money is credited toward those expenses.
✔️ If the seller is covering closing costs: You’ll typically receive your earnest money back at closing.
✔️ If you have a down payment: Your earnest money is rolled into that amount.
For example, if you put down $10,000 in earnest money and your closing costs total $7,000, you’ll only need to bring $3,000 to closing to cover the remaining costs.
Earnest money is a crucial part of buying a home, demonstrating your commitment to the transaction while protecting both you and the seller. The key takeaway? Your deposit is safe as long as you keep your contingencies in place. At closing, it gets credited toward your costs—whether that’s your down payment or closing fees.
If you’re buying a home and have questions about how to structure your offer, contingencies, or anything else in the home-buying process, feel free to reach out. I’d love to help guide you through it!
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